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Communicate Like Someone's Life Depends on It

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On average a person takes roughly 16 breaths per minute. Multiplied by 60, this means that we take about 960 breaths an hour. Multiply this by 24 and we take 23,040 breaths a day. Now multiply this by a year and we take a whopping 8,409,600 breaths a year. Imagine this number if we simply add in exercise. The number would be even larger. In a lifetime we will take an average of 672,768,000 breaths. Now that’s a lot of breathing.

So, what would happen if we hypothetically decided that we were going to interrupt breath number 15,659 in our daily routine by not taking it? Hmmmm … Interesting thought, but in case the question is confusing let me give you a hit: we won’t live to take breath #15,660. Each breath we take is necessary for life. Unfortunately, there is no extra credit for having taking 15,659 breaths. No matter how well we breathe, if we fail to take our next breath, it’s our last one.

Communication is a lot like breathing. Any given time we can have stellar moments of communicating. We can even be dubbed a communication Rock Stars by our spouses for remembering to inform them of an upcoming dinner engagement. Forget to mention your work is taking you out of country tomorrow, however, and your Rock Star status has just been denied and, just like your last breath, you’re done. The proverbial turkey is cooked, and so are you.

Whether we are at home, hanging out in the world, or with our Church family, communicating is vital and no matter how well we do, we are one breath away from a breakdown or a celebration.

Christ is the perfect communicator, and He gives us great insight to the art of communication. From parables, questions, 1-on-1 interactions, large group messages, quoting of scripture and straight forward truths, Christ communicated to the world His role as Lord and Savior. Christ made clear to the world who He was and His role when He said, “I am the way, the truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father except though me.”  John 14:6

How will we communicate the gospel with clear precision to the world? After all, the good news of Jesus Christ is more important than the air we breathe.

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Freedom of Self-forgetfulness

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Don’t be puffed up but be filled up.

Sinful pride is an enemy. We often embrace pride to sooth our dark souls by puffing up our ego with unhealthy thoughts. Humility is a doorway to great joy in life. Timothy Keller in his book The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness (pg. 31-36) leads us to a new way of thinking as he explains true humility. Enjoy:

C.S. Lewis in Mere Christianity makes a brilliant observation about gospel-humility at the very end of his chapter on pride. If we were to meet a truly humble person, Lewis says, we would never come away from meeting them thinking they were humble. They would not be always telling us they were a nobody (because a person who keeps saying they are a nobody is actually a self-obsessed person). The thing we would remember from meeting a truly gospel-humble person is how much they seemed to be totally interested in us. Because the essence of gospel- humility is not thinking more of myself or thinking less of myself, it is thinking of myself less.

Gospel-humility is not needing to think about myself. Not needing to connect things with myself. It is an end to thoughts such as, ‘I’m in this room with these people, does that make me look good? Do I want to be here?’ True gospel-humility means I stop connecting every experience, every conversation, with myself. In fact, I stop thinking about myself. The freedom of self-forgetfulness. The blessed rest that only self-forgetfulness brings.

True gospel-humility means an ego that is not puffed up but filled up. This is totally unique. Are we talking about high self-esteem? No. So, is it low self-esteem? Certainly not. It is not about self esteem. Paul simply refuses to play that game. He says “I don’t care about your opinion but, I don’t care that much about my opinion” – and that is the secret.

A truly gospel-humble person is not a self-hating person or self loving person, but a gospel- humble person. The truly gospel humble person is a self-forgetful person whose ego is just like his or her toes. It just works. It does not draw attention to itself. The toes just work; the ego just works. Neither draws attention to itself.

Here is one little test. The self-forgetful person would never be hurt particularly badly by criticism. It would not devastate them, it would not keep them up late, it would not bother them. Why? Because a person who is devastated by criticism is putting too much value on what other people think, on other people’s opinions. The world tells the person who is thin-skinned and devastated by criticism to deal with it by saying, ‘who cares what they think? I know what I think. Who cares what the rabble thinks? It doesn’t bother me.’ People are either devastated by criticism – or they are not devastated by criticism because they do not listen to it. They will not listen to it or learn from it because they do not care about it. They know who they are and what they think. In other words, our only solution to low self-esteem is pride. But that is no solution. Both low self-esteem and pride are horrible nuisances to our own future and to everyone around us.

The person who is self-forgetful is the complete opposite. When someone whose ego is not puffed up but filled up gets criticism, it does not devastate them. They listen to it and see it as an opportunity to changed. Sounds idealistic? The more we get to understand the gospel, the more we want to change. Friends, wouldn’t you want to be a person who does not need honour – nor is afraid of it? Someone who does not lust for recognition – nor, on the other hand is frightened to death of it? Don’t you want to be the kind of person who, when they see themselves in a mirror or reflected in a shop window, does not admire what they see but does not cringe either? Wouldn’t you like to be the type of person who, in their imaginary life, does not sit around fantasizing about hitting self-esteem home-runs, daydreaming about successes that gives them the edge over others? Or perhaps you tend to beat yourself up and to be tormented by regrets. Wouldn’t you like to be free of them? Wouldn’t you like to be the skater who wins the silver, and yet is thrilled about those three triple jumps that the gold medal winner did? To love it the way you love a sunrise? Just to love the fact that it was done? For it not to matter whether it was their success or your success. Not to care if they did it or you did it. You are as happy that they did it as if you had done it yourself – because you are just so happy to see it.

You will probably say that you do not know anybody like that. But this is the possibility for you and me if we keep on going where Paul is going. I can start to enjoy things that are not about me. My work is not about me, my skating is not about me, my romance is not about me, my dating is not about me. I can actually enjoy things for what they are. They are not just for my resume. They are not just to look good on my college or job application. They are not just a way of filling up the emptiness. Wouldn’t you want that? This is off our map. This is gospel-humility, blessed self-forgetfulness. Not thinking more of myself as in modern cultures, or less of myself as in traditional cultures… Simply thinking of myself less.

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